1. Accept that they have no regard for others.
2. Don’t take it personally.
3. Do not let them abuse you.
4. TAKE BREAKS FROM THIS PERSON WHEN YOU NEED IT, AND EXPLAIN WHY IF HE OR SHE ASKS.
5. SILENCE IS GOLDEN
6. Remind Yourself Of Your Own Value.
7. Try to understand what is triggering their selfish behavior.
8. Set Clear Boundaries
9. Stay true to yourself—don’t stoop to their level.
10. Don’t assume.
11. Let them see their behavior.
One way is by replicating their behavior, so they can see themselves reflected in you.
12. IF YOU'RE FEELING LIKE A DOORMAT, STOP DOING FAVORS FOR THIS PERSON.
13. Bring up topics you are interested in during conversations.
14. Detach and Withdraw: Give them the last “not interested” card and survey their response.
15. Remind them that the world does not revolve around them.
16. Remember that a certain amount of selfishness is healthy.
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